{"id":3677,"date":"2020-09-06T17:22:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-06T17:22:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/why-we-experience-culture-shock\/"},"modified":"2020-09-21T15:52:35","modified_gmt":"2020-09-21T15:52:35","slug":"why-we-experience-culture-shock","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/en\/why-we-experience-culture-shock\/","title":{"rendered":"Why we experience culture shock"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-contents=\"true\">\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"99ti7\" data-offset-key=\"jq8i-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"jq8i-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-1-0\">Expatriation can be one of the most exciting periods of your life, but also one the most challenging. Have you heard of the expat curve or the stages of acculturation? Did you experience <\/span><span class=\"diy96o5h\"><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-2-0\">culture shock<\/span><\/span><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-3-0\"> after moving abroad or <\/span><span class=\"diy96o5h\"><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-4-0\">re-entry shock<\/span><\/span><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-5-0\"> when you returned back home?<\/span><\/div>\n<div data-offset-key=\"jq8i-0-0\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<div data-offset-key=\"jq8i-0-0\"><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-5-0\">Take a look at the following graphic that depicts the different stages of acculturation. I also recommend this short and fun <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/OrnzxzwaRIE\">video<\/a> by the LIVING INSTITUTE which wonderfully explains the <\/span><span class=\"diy96o5h\"><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-6-0\">expat curve<\/span><\/span><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-7-0\"> that many expats have experienced. It is of course a different curve for every individual, but it is worth reflecting on your own experience and a relief to be reassured, that it is absolutely normal and ok to have these ups and downs. It is my job as an <\/span><span class=\"diy96o5h\"><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-8-0\">intercultural trainer<\/span><\/span><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-9-0\"> and <\/span><span class=\"diy96o5h\"><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-10-0\">coach<\/span><\/span><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-11-0\"> to bring awareness to these phases so that you are better prepared for your expat adventure. Sometimes, expats struggle with a long-lasting culture shock or get stuck along the way. This is when <\/span><span class=\"diy96o5h\"><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-12-0\">expat coaching<\/span><\/span><span data-offset-key=\"jq8i-13-0\"> can make all the difference.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"99ti7\" data-offset-key=\"jq8i-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"jq8i-0-0\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3648 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Stages-of-acculturation.jpg\" alt=\"The Expat Curve\" width=\"733\" height=\"489\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Stages-of-acculturation.jpg 733w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Stages-of-acculturation-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Stages-of-acculturation-550x367.jpg 550w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 733px) 100vw, 733px\" \/><\/div>\n<div data-offset-key=\"jq8i-0-0\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3><span class=\"break-words\"><span dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #33cccc;\">But why do we have these painful culture shocks?<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Take a look at the six most common causes for culture shock. <span class=\"break-words\"><span dir=\"ltr\">Which of the 6 areas has affected you most? How did you overcome them? What was your coping strategy? <\/span><\/span> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3650 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"710\" height=\"710\" srcset=\"https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2-1060x1060.jpg 1060w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2-550x550.jpg 550w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2-500x500.jpg 500w, https:\/\/chameleon-coaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Why-we-have-culture-shocks-2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" \/> <span class=\"break-words\"><span dir=\"ltr\">As a general rule, the larger the cultural distance &#8211; meaning the extent of differences in values and communication styles between the two cultures &#8211; the bigger the shock. But it can also hit you, when you expect two cultures to be more similar than they actually are. We experience a cognitive dissonance when our values and beliefs clash with those of the new culture. This understandibly causes psychological stress.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #33cccc;\">What helps? Coping strategies for culture shock and adaptation difficulties:<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>don&#8217;t panic, nearly everyone has some form of culture shock \u2013 it\u2018s absolutely normal!<\/li>\n<li>stay in touch with your support network (family and friends)<\/li>\n<li>make new contacts to locals and other expats<\/li>\n<li>get out and explore your new city and country<\/li>\n<li>get involved, join a club, practice your hobbies<\/li>\n<li>always expect the unexpected<\/li>\n<li>talk with other expats and get rid of that exasperation<\/li>\n<li>cultivate your favorite customs from home (cook favorite dish, etc.)<\/li>\n<li>do not underestimate the climatic adjustment<\/li>\n<li>have faith and give yourself time<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #33cccc;\"><b>Remind<\/b> <b>yourself<\/b> <b>of<\/b><b> all <\/b><b>the<\/b> <b>benefits<\/b> <b>of<\/b> <b>your<\/b> <b>journey<\/b><b>:<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>deeper insights into the culture, broadened horizon and intercultural competence<\/li>\n<li>personal development: increased self-esteem, more optimistic attitude, flexibility, more serenity and resilience<\/li>\n<li>new friends<\/li>\n<li>travel, experiences and adventures<\/li>\n<li>linguistic proficiency<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As your intercultural trainer and coach, my aim is to raise awareness that culture shock is real and why it happens. I work with my clients to identify the areas that are causing distress and help them develop healthy coping strategies to move through this phase with more ease and grace. Check out <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/xZ6rPz2ghu8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">this YouTube video<\/a> where I share my own culture shock and coping strategy around punctuality in Chile.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Expatriation can be one of the most exciting periods of your life, but also one the most challenging. Have you heard of the expat curve or the stages of acculturation? Did you experience culture shock after moving abroad or re-entry shock when you returned back home? \u00a0 Take a look at the following graphic that depicts the different stages of acculturation. 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